Antz,
You are starting ahead of the way many of us started. That includes me. In fact, I would like to say "most" instead of many. I do not remember the first time I used my truing tool. Whenever it was, it was not early enough. Like most of us, I suffered from the "Precious Tormek Grinding Wheel" syndrome. I did not want to "waste" my precious grinding wheel with the truing tool.
Keeping the wheel trued and dressed is only one side of the benefit of truing. Frequent light truing helps keep the operator's skills trued and fresh. I contend that such frequent, light truing causes no more wheel wear than infrequent, heavy truing. It also increases the accuracy of your work.
I once took out a nasty gouge from the center edge of my SG while truing. It was my fault entirely. It was not a bad wheel; I had inadvertently forgotten to tighten the TT-50 to the support bar. I thought I had ruined the diamond cluster and even purchased a replacement. Several days later, with a cooler, calmer head, I began what has become my very light truing cut technique, hoping to resuscitate my diamond cluster. It was a most valuable learning experience.
I think you probably made too deep of a cut. In my opinion, Tormek marketing is held hostage by today's speed culture. Most people watching a real time video of me truing my grinding wheel would conclude that it was too slow and spend several hundred dollars in the quest for more speed.
Often my first slow pass does not remove any material. The second pass, usually half a microadjust number OR LESS, barely kisses the high spot. I continue at this snail's pace until the cutter just touches the entire wheel. At this point, the wheel is true. Any more passes just wears down the wheel.
Yes, my light, frequent truing method is slow, however, the surface of my freshly trued wheel is pristine. I have never had edge blow out on my SG, SB, or SJ.
A violinist always loosens the tension on his bow before putting his instrument away. A sharpener would be wise to true his wheel after each sharpening session.
I predict that your experiences with your first grinding wheel will result in longer life from future wheels. Do not become discouraged.
Ken